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Deafying Stereotypes – Deaf Travel

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“Can Deaf people drive?”

“How can you survive in this world if you don’t know how to communicate?”

… and so on.

There are two bloggers who have captivated my attention – Lilo and Stacey, and I am honestly thrilled that they have taken time to share their story with us…

These are the most common questions we get asked throughout our lives. So, you can imagine how people react initially when they find out that we wanted to travel.

Deaf Travel

“Isn’t it too dangerous for you to travel?” Our parents’ utmost fears. They feared that since we aren’t capable of hearing certain surroundings, that there may be a risk to our lives. For instance, they feared that we wouldn’t be able to hear oncoming speeding cars.

The truth is: Deaf people can do anything, except hear. What people tend to forget or may not realise is that although we cannot hear, our other senses are heightened. We naturally developed other senses more strongly – in particular, our vision. We develop skills such as reading lips, expression and body language.

Deaf Travel Deafinitely Wanderlust Thailand

However, we put off travel for a long time because of the fears that society and the media instil into our conscious. One day, we both decided to face that challenge and prove to others that Deaf people are capable of travel. Thus, our blog, Deafinitely Wanderlust, was born.

Deaf Difference

Through our adventure, we conquered not only the language barriers but communication barriers as well. In comparison to Hearing people, we naturally picked up their local gestures faster because our voices are our hands. We can also distinguish through body language when locals are nervous, annoyed or even lying!

There was a time when Stacey wanted try to socialise with some Hearing travellers at this couch surfer’s place in South Korea. During the conversation, it was like playing ping pong to try and read lips back and forth. When Stacey missed what this other guest was saying, she asked, “Can you say that again please?” The traveller repeated the sentence but Stacey still missed her words. “Sorry?” Stacey asked. There was a sudden flinch on her eyebrow, her hands clenched and started knocking lightly on the table and she scratched her temple as if she was trying to hide her frustration. Stacey immediately could tell by observing small body language gestures that many Hearing people don’t often pay attention to. This observational skill is highly beneficial in any situation as a Deaf traveller.

Deafinitely Wanderlust Deaf Travel BangkokUniversal Sign Language & Travel

Not only do we socialise with Hearing people, we also meet many Deaf people in different countries. Each country have their own sign language, therefore American Sign Language is not an universal sign language. Sometimes it can be a little similar or vastly different. Regardless of the difference, we still somehow understand each other. We use gestures, expression and body language to converse. Deaf people share mutual feelings and understanding, this is extraordinary. One of the perks as a Deaf traveller is that we do not only learn a culture but also a subculture, which is Deaf culture, as well. Deaf locals tell us what is it like to be Deaf in their country since each country view Deaf people differently. We learned one of the most common problems is lack of certain accommodation of Deaf community.

The lack of accomodation for Deaf people is not only a problem in undeveloped countries but everywhere. One of the most important accessibilities that we need is visual services. When travelling with no visual aids, we often have to ask local people what the man on the speaker said or when is the destination we need coming up. Generally, this problem is because of the lack of Deaf awareness, especially depending on how each country view Deaf people. For example, in America, Deaf is viewed as disability whereas in South Korea, it is viewed as handicap. Because of the lack of Deaf awareness, we often also encounter discrimination.

In Singapore, we were checking in for our flight to Thailand; the flight attendants were not willing to accommodate us when we told them that we needed communication through writing. “You CAN talk!” One of the flight attendants shouted and pointed at Lilo, “I saw you talking earlier! You can talk!” Imagine our frustration! They not only obstructed our way to communicate, but they took away our human rights. Fortunately, a man who was standing behind us, told one of the flight attendants, “They’re Deaf. You need to write, that’s how you guys are able to communicate,” PRAISE THIS MAN! It is so nice to see that there are some people out there that are aware and understand Deaf people and their human rights.

Like any other travellers, we have experienced so many great and unfortunate experiences ranging from getting stranded in Japan to bathing elephants. Even though, it hasn’t been all rainbows and butterflies, it still pushed us to see that we were capable of doing anything. It helped us to gain confidence in facing these obstacles and learning from it. Most importantly, it made us even more proud of being Deaf.

Deaf Travel Deafinitely Wanderlust Taroko National Park, Hualien, Taiwan

Lieurene (also known as Lilo) and Stacey are two Deaf female adventurers, who won’t let being Deaf hinder them from travelling. Since they shared the same interests of wanderlust, they jumped on the opportunity to venture into the world. The pair want to challenge themselves to try overcome any obstacles that get in their way and learn from their experiences. Lilo and Stacey hope to inspire anyone to travel, regardless. Join me in following their experience…

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5 Ways to Improve Your Spanish Without Taking A Flight

Improve your Spanish

Looking for ways to improve your Spanish without moving abroad? This guide details online opportunities, ways to connect with people who can help in the Spanish speaking community and free apps that you can use when on the move. The benefits of learning Spanish are numerous! Fit in when you take a vacation, avoid getting ripped off when you go backpacking, be the best in class at school and open up to a bigger market in business. Here’s five-way to improve your Spanish without leaving your armchair with thanks to Jess from Sweet and Sour Adventures.



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Improve Your Spanish

They say the best way to learn a language is to live in the country to allow for full language immersion.

However having lived in Spain for 10 months, I have to say my Spanish hasn’t improved greatly.

It all depends on you and how willing you are to learn the language.

No matter where you are, you can create opportunities to learn Spanish.

So whether you just want to be able to say thank you in the native language as it is polite, order from a menu without the use of Google translate or make business transactions in Spanish speaking countries there are actionable things you can do to get to your goal. 

Online Language Exchanges 

Go to language exchanges. It may seem obvious but one of the best ways to improve your Spanish is to speak to locals. You can easily find intercambios on Facebook or Meet Up.

In the UK, there is an abundance of Spanish people who are equally as keen on learning English, as you are about learning Spanish. Take advantage of it!

Language Exchange Partner

Get yourself a language exchange partner.

Alternatively, if you prefer to have an exclusive language exchange partner that you can meet up with regularly, you can head to

Once you sign up, search people in your area that want to learn English and speak Spanish and hey presto, you’ve got a list of potential contacts. I’ve used this in different parts of the world and it works great.

Listening Skills

Listen to the radio.

When outside of Spain, it’s hard to improve your listening skills since your exposure to hearing the Spanish language is very little.

I would recommend that you listen to Spanish radio programmes as often as you can. Whilst you’re cooking, driving, showering – everything.

In the beginning, you won’t understand anything but trust me, after a while, you will subconsciously pick up some words and start to understand what Spanish people are saying – miraculous!

Create a Spotify playlist of Spanish songs for you to listen to during your commute or tune into Spanish news every day to bombard your brain with the Spanish language. 

Learn from the Movies

Rewatch a British/American TV series or film with Spanish dubs. 

Slightly awkward at the start but you will soon get used to not hearing the voice you expect.

The familiarity of the story matched with the new language allows your thinking some familiarity with the challenge of the language. 

TV and movies in Spanish are great because they help improve your understanding the Spanish pronunciation and vocabulary.

This is to help improve your Spanish speech.

English movies with Spanish subtitles won’t improve your listening skills and its impact on reading is dubious too as the brain will just ignore them and tune into the English narrative. 

Write to Improve Your Spanish 

Write as often as you can and publish your writing on Lang8.

It’s a great website for improving your Spanish writing as native speakers correct your texts which can be as short or as long as you like.

In return, you correct other people’s work in your native language.

Learning Spanish Apps 

Apps are a fun way of introducing the language and also keeping your skill up to speed. However, they can’t be your only method of learning so team them up with the guidance above. 

  • Duolingo – most popular, fun games (free)
  • FuentU – lessons, videos, audio (paid)
  • Rosetta Stone – known for traditional language courses

A Final Note

Lastly, remember that whilst all of us want to sound as sexy as Penelope Cruz, the reality is that we need to adjust expectations and take the language learning process one step at a time.

Make yourself small manageable goals such as listening to the radio twice a week or going to a language exchange once a week. You won’t become fluent overnight but enjoy the process and have fun!

Now that you can speak Español why not check out a road trip in Spain?’

Jess from Sweet and Sour Adventures is a British born Chinese girl with itchy feet. Year abroad student now turned content creator who can’t sit still and loves to live outside her comfort zone.
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My Week Work Experience at Westminster

As I sat under the chimes of Big Ben I considered what a unique experience this was, a week work experience at Westminster. There are not many people that can say they have walked ‘the corridors of power’ and it wasn’t anything to do with luck or chance or an election that got me here.

Why Do Work Experience At Westminster?

As a Modern Studies teacher (politics and current affairs) it is expected that I have knowledge about political procedures and because I studied Social Policy at university I lacked some of that knowledge.

As every good student should – I filled that learning gap and arranged work experience at Westminster with my school’s local Member of Parliament (MP), Thomas Docherty (Labour).

Luckily for me, I have a good friend (Kaci) who was willing to put me up for the week or it would have been an expensive voluntary work experience.

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Shock in St Mary’s Undercroft’s Cupboard…

On day one, Stephen, Thomas’s research assistant greeted me and took me for coffee at Portcullis House.

This is the best place for politician watching, Nicholas Soames (Winston Churchill’s grandson) and Jo Johnson (Boris’s brother) sauntered by.

The morning was wrapped up with a tour of Westminster, I’ve never seen so much green (House of Commons) or red (House of Lords) leather in my life. Did you know that Michael Jackson asked to buy the gold features in the House of Lords (apparently)?

The highlight of the day was seeing the plaque which celebrates Emily Davison (suffragette and hero) which Labour MP Tony Benn illegally put up in the Chapel of St Mary Undercroft’s broom cupboard!

That, and sitting in Angela Eagle’s (shadow) cabinet office with Thomas as they discussed strategy regarding the House of Lords reform as the TV displayed a Lord being interviewed by the BBC in the Parliament lobby below us. Surreal!

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Sitting With Giants

It was an exciting time to be in Parliament as The Commons’ timetable was saturated by The House of Lords reform debate. As Thomas’s guest I was granted permission to sit ‘in front of the glass’ in The Chamber, normal Joe Bloggs’ view the debate from behind.

During the debate, I heard Nick Clegg, (then) Deputy Prime Minister, speak on behalf of the Coalition Government and sat across from Baroness (Betty) Boothroyd, another great in the fight for women in politics – the first (and only) female Speaker of the House!

Committees, Collaboration, & Constituents

Although it is what we see on the telly, Westminster is not solely about the debate.

Much of the work completed by MPs and Lords is in committees. At this time, Thomas was part of the Defence (Select) Committee and I observed the committee question the then Defence Cabinet Minister, Philip Hammond (soon to be Foreign Minister) about army equipment; the impact on dockyards post Scotland’s referendum on independence and finance.

I also watched Thomas in action during a Backbench Business Committee meeting where he requested floor time for a debate on the cost of supermarket milk which is having detrimental effects on the farming industry.

Although party politics plays a large part in what goes on at Westminster, I did see collaborative work through the All-Party Parliamentary Disability Group.

The MPs discussed the short and long-term problems that families with children who have disabilities face, taking notes as these witnesses were given a voice.

It was tough to listen to but that’s what MPs are there to do – represent their constituents and I saw a wealth of evidence of this during my week work experience at Westminster.

How to Apply for Work Experience at Westminster

I had met with the school’s MP on a few occasions before I asked to spend time at his office in London but that should not stop you from applying for voluntary work, make that call! You can find out who your local MP is here.

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Have you travelled for work experience? Would you?